18 realistic family photos. Because we know parenting isn’t picture-perfect.

Family photographer Danielle Guenther gets the struggle that is parenting.

As a mom herself, she lives and loves the daily grind. Sure, she relishes those occasional picture-perfect moments, but she also relates to those very realmoments her clients experience before, during, and after she takes family photos.

It was after one such family photo shoot that she decided to capture a real moment.

The mom “just sort of laid down in complete exhaustion,” Guenther told me in a phone interview. Then the dad collapsed next to the mom on the couch. Guenther thought it was funny and they came up with the idea to add a few props and take a more realistic family photo right then and there. She titled it “Parenting Is Exhausting.” (Isn’t that the truth?!) When she posted it to her business Facebook page, “people went crazy for it,” she said. “They were relating.”

“Parenting Is Exhausting.” Don’t panic — it’s apple juice in the wine glass! (See that jug of Mott’s in front?) What parent hasn’t felt this exhausted before? This is the photo Guenther described above — the first in her series. All photos belong to Danielle Guenther Photography and are shared here with Guenther’s permission.

It was the opposite of all those nearly flawless pics we flood Facebook and Instagram with. And Guenther could see the very real need parents have to connect to these more authentic experiences.

And that’s how her photo series “Best Case Scenario” was born.

In addition to or even in place of traditional family photos, Guenther takes staged but oh-so-real pictures for her clients. Guenther gets to know each family, and, based on their lives, she creates a moment in time for the perfectly imperfect shot.

They’re hilarious and relatable, and she shared “Parenting Is Exhausting” and 18 other gems with us. Enjoy!

1. Rush Hour

Getting out the door in the morning is an exercise in patience.